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Why I Love My Daughter - Beth Feldman

Thursday, August 20, 2009

  I've always been amazed by my daughter.  Partially because she and I are like night and day.  I've always struggled with my weight and she has a body I dreamt about having when I was in the 5th grade.   She knows how to crochet and bake, her artwork has been displayed in our local library and she loves team sports like basketball and softball.  Again, nothing like me - tennis and singing were my passions when I was her age and she has no interest whatsoever in doing either in public any time soon.   

What I love most about my daughter is that she looks out for everyone around her - including her little brother.   Last year, when my kids were attending the same day camp, my daughter was there to watch out for my son when some other kids started teasing him.  You see, as the kids celebrated "Crazy Hat Day" at camp, my kids decided to wear the Goofy hats we bought them at Disneyworld. They're both pretty silly and were perfect for the special day, except when my then six year-old-son arrived with his hat, his fellow kindergarten and first grade campers were not that nice to him. In fact, they didn't call his hat silly, they called it "stupid." My son told me the story after I had returned home from work and I explained that kids could sometimes be mean and he shouldn't pay them any mind. Of course, I started thinking about other things they could tease him about - like his herniated belly button which we haven't fixed yet because I'm afraid to put him under anesthesia and all I kept thinking was how much I hate it when kids get mean - especially since when I was my daughter's age, I was the butt of countless fat jokes.

When my daughter came home from an evening play date, I tucked her into bed and she retold the hat story and how the kids were mean to Dylan.  I then asked if she heard them say anything to him. Although she replied that she didn't, she said her brother came over to tell her what happened and she walked over to the kids and warned them that if they teased her brother again they'd be in trouble - and trust me - you don't want my daughter watching your every move! She then instructed her brother that if he needed her she'd be nearby and said that while her group was playing in the deep end of the pool, she stayed with him until his group moved on to another activity.

And that's why I love my daughter. Don't get me wrong, I love her more than anything even before I decided to share this story, but to see how compassionate and protective she is of her little brother even when I'm not around, made my eyes well up with tears. People tell me all the time that she is an old soul who looks out for others and frankly, I wholeheartedly agree. I have always sensed a glimpse of my grandma in her - from her masterful crochet work to always being on hand to help those in need, to her love of cooking and incredible sense of humor. At 10 years old, she is well on her way to becoming an incredible young lady and all I can say is I am so proud to be her mom.

Beth Feldman is the founder of www.rolemommy.com, an online community and events company dedicated to motivating busy moms to pursue their passion while raising a family. Feldman switched career gears nearly three years ago while she served as vice president for the CBS Communications Group.    After surrounding herself with several inspirational individuals, including "Amazing Race" host Phil Keoghan,  Beth was bitten by the entrepeneurial bug and decided to dive of the corporate ladder to pursue her dream of creating a community that would celebrate the achievements of mothers who have reinvented their lives while raising a family.  After leaving her corner office behind, Beth has never looked back.  In 2007, Beth, along with "Extra" producer Yvette Cororon, self published Peeing in Peace: Tales & Tips for Type A Moms.  After selling several thousand copies, the pair landed a fabulous agent who sold their little book that could to Sourcebooks, who re-released the book in April 2008 and most recently, sold the Brazilian rights to Peeing in Peace.  
Additionally, Beth has produced and hosted several high profile events in New York and Chicago  featuring celebrities, authors, entrepreneurs and parenting experts who have reinvented their lives while raising a family.  Role Mommy launched a database called "The List" that offers media and speaking engagement opportunities for mom authors, bloggers, parenting experts and entrepreneurs. Beth is a contributor to Twittermoms where she offers PR and marketing advice to mom bloggers, authors, entrepreneurs and parenting experts (culled from her nearly 20 years in the public relations and entertainment industry). Beth also has extensive media experience both behind the scenes and in front of the cameras, having appeared on national and local television shows, dozens of radio outlets, newspapers, magazines and parenting websites including Momlogic,  AOL, Better TV, Parents, Working Mother and Advertising Age..
She currently resides in New Rochelle, NY along with her husband, two children and a cat who sometimes suffers from Deli cat reflux disorder.


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BlessedCulinary wrote:
1) 8/21/2009 10:45:35 AM
That is soo sweet.
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momof1 wrote:
2) 8/21/2009 12:35:32 PM
That teething ring is practical and stylish.
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toyin wrote:
3) 8/22/2009 12:21:35 AM
that is so nice of u to say to your daughter. u re sure to be a great mum and am sure ur daughter loves u very much. ur daughter is really cool. you guys really get along very much.
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gabbierox wrote:
4) 8/22/2009 8:52:39 AM
awesome awesome blog! inspirational
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NURSEKITTY99 wrote:
5) 8/25/2009 2:04:32 PM
I too have a daughter/mom relationship like yours. She is a brunette with long shiny hair and mine is a curly blond mess. She plays sports and I contemplate life. For a fifth grader, she has more friends than I can count. We do share a love for art, fashion and make-up. She gave me my biggest compliment ever last year after we had our annual mother daughter spa day. She said "Mom, you are the best ever because you are nice to everyone no matter what". I try every day to set a good example for my little kitten. Darn, if I could only keep her nine forever!
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PHONIEX1 wrote:
6) 8/27/2009 9:02:46 PM
why i love my daughter because she is sweet to swwet for her own good, she is gin=ven even when she doesnt want to be (her litle brother takes full advantage of that) and she teels me she loves me more times then i can count in a day, she has these eyes that are AMAZING there like looking and the purest reflection of beauty and she has these eyelashes that are so long top and bottom they curl back into the crease of her eyes i call her Betty Boop, she laughs who's betty boop? i showed her she smiles. She is a true reflection of my mother who she never had the pleasure of meeting, but shares her great heart, and love for people, although i love all my children equally she does hold a special place in my heart... maybe because she reminds me so much of the relationship i shared with my mom.....she's my angel baby
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